Pastors · ministry leaders · marketplace leaders

Who is pouring into you?

Sunday you looked fine. Monday you couldn't get up. When the shepherd is exhausted, who shepherds the shepherd? This is the exhaustion that comes from carrying everyone else, and you do not have to walk it alone.

Free session · Thu Oct 22, 5:00–6:45 PM ETAsk for The Weight You Carry, a leadership inventory
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Pastor, who pastors you?

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Time for What Matters

Two free sessions on Thursday, October 22

Ministry edition

5:00–6:45 PM ET · online by video · free

Bring the one weekly task you'd most like to stop carrying alone, and we'll sort it together: what only you can do, what someone you trust can own, and what a person-approved system can carry.

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Business edition

11:00 AM–12:45 PM ET · online by video · free

The same evening's worth of relief for a small business owner's week.

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Leadership consulting

For executives, pastors and marketplace leaders: identity, the weight you carry, and the road back to your footing. Every engagement has a clear price and a receipt.

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Facilitator cohort · Oct 23

Two hours on Zoom, 7–9 PM ET. Training the first facilitators for The ReDefined Man and a church care team. $149.

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Speaking

Care Sundays, men's events and pastor gatherings. Ask for the one-sheet.

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Books for leaders

For the last third of the run

The ReDefined Pastor coverThe ReDefined PastorA 90-day journal for leaders running on empty · Amazon author pageFinishing Well coverFinishing WellLeading through the last third of the run · Amazon author pageThe Marriage Behind the Ministry coverThe Marriage Behind the MinistryThe relationship everyone assumes is fine · Amazon author pageYour Mission Is Not Over coverYour Mission Is Not OverA 365-day recovery devotional · Amazon author page
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Exodus 18:18 · KJV

“Thou wilt surely wear away, both thou, and this people that is with thee: for this thing is too heavy for thee; thou art not able to perform it thyself alone.”

If it is heavy right now

Call or text 988 (Suicide and Crisis Lifeline) · text HOME to 741741 · SAMHSA National Helpline 1-800-662-4357, free and confidential, 24/7 · Tennessee REDLINE 1-800-889-9789.

ReDefined Mission is not a crisis service or a clinical provider. If you need licensed clinical support, a counselor or physician has to take over, and we will help you find one.